My baby shower was such an excellent time.  I loved planning for it and I loved having so many great people share in the joy of our expecting child.  The hardest part about the shower, was figuring out what I actually wanted for our baby. I did not care about the gifts I received at my shower, because everyone was going to bring or share what they thought was best, and that was important. I did feel compelled to register for my shower and it was hard to figure out what I should be registering for and what I should just buy myself.  Everything I got I made sure to…